October 25, 2015

Ashurah

     This weekend marked the celebration of Ashura. The bottle rocket bombs have been exploding outside our window, late at night, for a week in anticipation of this holiday. Here in Morocco, Ashura is such a fun-spirited holiday... so we were pretty shocked when we went to research the origins of the festivities and were met with pictures of mutilated kids bleeding on the streets. Oh dear. Apparently, the significance of Ashura, as well as how it is celebrated, varies wildly within different Muslim communities. Some Muslims believe that Ashura marks a day of fasting and remembering the day that the Israelites were freed from the hand of Pharaoh. Others insist that Ashura should be a solemn day for mourning the martyrdom of Muhammed the prophet's grandson Husayn (They even take part in bloody self-flagellation ceremonies in order to remember the brutality of his assassination). Morocco, on the other hand, celebrates Ashura in its own way...completely unique from these other Arab communities.
     Here in Morocco, Ashurah is more akin to American Christmas. It is a celebration for children. Traditionally, parents spoil their children with gifts, money, and candy during this time. The most traditional Ashurah gift is a "Taarija" (Moroccan drum), which is gifted to the children early so that they can parade around loudly during the days leading up to Ashurah. Thankfully, Aliyah has slept peacefully through all of the drumming this past week. It is also customary to give money to the poor and visit the cemeteries. On the actual day of Ashurah, children enjoy "Zem Zem" (water games). Our landlord explained that they always have a huge water-balloon fight, but that it is not abnormal to see a few "mean" individuals who opt to throw raw eggs instead.

      Friday, on the Eve of Ashurah, we were invited to join our landlord's family for a traditional meal of couscous. One great advantage to living directly above our landlord is that we do not have to adjust Aliyah's sleeping schedule in order to accept their meal invitations (which generally start very late at night). We can put her down at her normal bedtime and simply walk downstairs with our video monitor! Fantastic. :)
     The Ashurah-Eve meal was prefaced with an explosion of bottle rockets, firecrackers, and sparklers. American safety standards are certainly not considered here, especially when the kids are permitted to run to the show. Firecrackers were blown up under electrical boxes, bottle rockets were exploding off from flammable styrofoam, and explosions were being set off entirely too close to the people watching. All in good fun...and nobody got hurt. :) The delicous meal concluded with a time of watching a skew of hilarious family Dubsmash videos, which further emphasized the fact that this holiday is a joyous celebration of families.

     At GWA, it is traditional for all of the kindergarteners to receive a "Taarija" as a gift. They paint their little drums at school, and then bring them home for Ashura. When the school purchasing coordinator, Nadia, sought off to buy the 100+ drums from the local market for these kids, she decided to buy a special little one for Aliyah:


-David, Nicole, & Aliyah

October 18, 2015

Barcelona's Biggest Attraction: The Supermarket

     Interestingly enough, we've noticed that our "reasons" for choosing certain travel destinations has started to evolve. We don't necessarily choose destinations based on their "tourist trap" attractions anymore (i.e. the Eiffel Tower). We also don't always choose countries for the sole purpose of checking them off from our "been there & done that list". Sometimes...just sometimes... we book a relatively cheap vacation for the sole purpose of pork. That's right...pork. (ok.. & also good cheese and a much needed break from Moroccan culture.
     This was Nicole's 3rd trip to Barcelona, and our 5th trip to Spain in the last five years. The country itself is not new to us, so we never intended for this to be a very "touristy" trip. Rest assured, this doesn't mean we skipped out on the big sights. We certainly toured La Sagrada Familia, walked around Park Guell, strolled down La Rambla, and sought out all of the best "churro con chocolate" locations. Did we take an obscene amount of selfies to prove to the world that we've been to these places? Absolutely not... you're just going to have to take our word for it. Did we load up our suitcases with overpriced souvenirs? Heck no... we opted to fill it with several pounds of good pork and cheese instead (and some coveted IKEA merchandise because stuff is way cheaper there than in Morocco).
      Upon arriving back in Morocco and reflecting on our week in Barcelona, we both agreed that the highlight of our trip was the supermarkets. When you choose to live abroad, in a country which lacks so many of the food luxuries that you are used to, walking into a huge supermarket like Walmart or El Corte Ingles is exhilarating. Overwhelming. Sensational. Every single aisle is filled with the treasures that you have not seen in months! We probably spent hours meandering through the aisles of the Spanish supermarkets, and it wouldn't surprise us in the least if literal drool didn't fall down our chin when we walked through the pork section. Those giant legs of delicious, dried ham were just taunting us. We had our fill of quality Iberian lomo, jamon serrano, cheese, blueberries, bacon, and real granola bars. Even Aliyah developed a love for Spanish cheese and blueberries (the later of which had some pretty daunting color-changing affect on her... TMI). Whatever we couldn't eat, we stuffed into our suitcase. It won't last long...

We know we shouldn't brag...but in order to make our 6 a.m. flight out of Casablanca we had to leave our house at 3 a.m.. We transitioned Aliyah from her crib to the carseat, from the carseat to the stroller, and then through passport control/security. She never woke up. Best baby. Ever. (Also, filling out customs forms gets real old when you've done it a hundred times...so we decided to have some fun)

 Yes, that's the famous Montjuic Magic Fountain Show going off in the background. No, we did not get to enjoy it. Biggest mistake ever trying to take this little one out for a 9:00 p.m. fountain show on the same day that we arrived in Barcelona. Can you see her screaming face behind that pacifier? Her amazing sleep habits do have their limits... 

 These pictures demonstrate Aliyah's 11-month personality in a nutshell. She was so ecstatic to wave/smile at every stranger she saw in Barcelona. She referred to most of them as "mama" since she still hasn't entirely figured out what that word means. She simply knows that it means something important. She has learned how to give high fives, and also how to clap when you chant the infamous soccer "oh-lay oh-lay oh-lay oh-lay". The nannies at the creche played a big role in helping to teach her these skills, in addition to teaching her how to butt dance to Moroccan music.

Park Guell

Camp Nou

 La Sagrada Familia


-David, Nicole, & Aliyah